Politeness even at home. Be on the alert for rudeness, sarcasm, and inconsiderate comments or behavior. Even family members deserve to be treated politely. Make home a haven of kindness
“THINK before you speak.” It is wise advice. Tact .
Gratitude. Never let an opportunity pass by to say “thank you” for the least of favors or the smallest of gifts. Try to be a person who notices.
Thoughtfulness demonstrates that you value the other person. Let the Golden Rule be your guide.
Compliments especially in the hearing of others. Plant a lot of positive input into the people around you.
Focused Listening with eyes as well as ears. Even if you can recite his last sentence word for word, but your eyes were on the door, on the kids, or on a screen (as in TV, computer, iPhone, etc.) he will assume you’re not interested.
Reliability Keep promises and commitments; be on time for appointments or engagements. Consideration of these matters indicates you truly care about the other person.
Avoid comparisons to others. Suggesting that Susie be more like Sam is deflating and demoralizing, not helpful.
Avoid criticism unless absolutely necessary. Share judgments carefully, sandwiched between positive and affirming comments. NEVER criticize in front of others.
Avoid making corrections, especially in the company of others. Does it really matter if an event happened on Tuesday, not Wednesday, or that the car was a Ford and not a Chevy? Interrupting with unimportant corrections borders on rudeness. Yes, it does.